Index for question and answer pages about Codependency, Inner Child Healing, Spirituality, Metaphysics, Alcoholism, and more, Newsletters in which Codependence therapist/Spiritual teacher/author of Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls informally discusses his own process in relationship to his web site in newsletters to his e-mailing list.


Welcome to a page of Joy to You and Me

The Web Site of Robert Burney and Joy to You and Me Enterprises.

Robert Burney is a codependency therapist, Spiritual teacher, and the author of the Joyously inspirational book

Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls.

This page is an index for the question and answer pages where Robert shares his experience, strength, and hope by posting (anonymously) the questions he receives by e-mail and the responses which he sends back.  If you have reached this page without coming through the web site, you might want to first explore the web site by going to the Joy to You & Me Home Page so that you can understand the context within which these questions are asked and answered.
This page formerly included recommended links.  Those links are now on a separate links page at http://www.silcom.com/~joy2meu/links.html   Included are links to web sites that deal with Spirituality, codependence / codependency, twelve step recovery, emotional healing, enlightenment, Alcoholism, and New Age Metaphysics.  Also provided is a search engine for searching the web from Alta Vista/LookSmart; connections to some web rings;  and awards that the Joy to You & Me Web Site has received.

Newsletters

The update/newsletters for the Joy to You & Me Web Site are now arranged in chronological order so that anyone new may read them in order to see how the web site has evolved.

Joy to You & Me Newsletter I  -  Newsletter for July 1, 1998
This page contains the first newsletter/update that was sent out on . Topics of the newsletter on this page include: emotionally honest role models, the dysfunction of traditional therapy, powerlessness, Spiritual Truth, I teach best what I need most to learn.
Joy to You & Me Newsletter II  -  Newsletter for August 15, 1998
Topics of the newsletter on this page include: messenger of Truth and Love, Web site experience, search engines, frustration, relaxing, surrender, acceptance, Let Go and Let God, Feeling the feelings.
Joy to You & Me Newsletter III  -  Newsletter for 8/23/98 and 10/25/98
Topics of the newsletter on this page include: making plans, letting go of the plans, birth of the question and answer pages, integrating my Spiritual belief system into my emotional responses to life, Opportunity for growth disguised as car break down, Positive Affirmations, emotional balance, Unconditionally Loved in every moment
Joy to You & Me Newsletter IV  -  Newsletter for November 22, 1998
Topics of the newsletter on this page include: Abundance, old tapes, planting seeds, Gods time, Burning at the stake, web site, Happy Joyous & Free, The Glorious Exciting Adventure, Twelve Steps and Principles, opening to receive, tithing, this too shall pass, More Will Be Revealed
Joy to You & Me Newsletter V  -  Newsletter for January 1999  #1 part 1
Topics of the newsletter on this page include:  eruption of Joy & Love & Dazzling Light, critical mass, opened my heart, planetary healing process just got turned up a notch, Second Coming, I AM A MESSIAH, Oprah, credit cards, Joy2MeU e-mailing community, new award, The Emotional Frontier Within.  This Newsletter came out in two parts. 1999 #1 Part 2 can be reached from 1999 #1 part 1.


Question and Answer Pages
This is an index for the question and answer pages where Robert shares his experience,
  strength, and hope by posting the questions he receives by e-mail and the responses which he sends back.

Go to Q & A 1 - Questions from Vermont, England, Alaska, Oregon about being "Confused & lost" + "where to start?" + others - responses about  inner dialogue to combat shame, setting boundaries with the inner child, learning to cry, my next book, etc.  -  (posted August 23rd 1998
Go to Q & A 2  - "Selfishness" + "Does it really get any better?" + others - Delayed Stress Syndome or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, good selfish vs bad selfish, reply about web site that says codependence movement is ruining marriages, Mother Theresa, Metaphysical questions  -  (posted 8-30-98)
Go to Q & A 3  - Jesus & Mary Magdalene - a long response to a question about Jesus, sexuality, and the bible  -  (posted 8-28-98)
Go to Q & A 4 - About Anger, Intimacy and Anger, Being Angry at God, the disease minimizes, loneliness, anger vs rage, Zipidee Do Dah -  (posted 9-9-98)
Go to Q & A 5 - About Romantic Relationships & Process Work - the devastation of emotional abuse, blaming, sorting out the inner messages, being powerless over the future, Unconditional Love does not mean being a doormat  -  (posted 9-13-98)
Go to Q & A 6 - Some far out Metaphysical stuff including The Eternal Now, parallel dimensions, memories of the future, previously unpublished quotes from The Dance of Wounded Souls Trilogy  Book I In The Beginning. . . . (posted 10-25-98)
Go to Q & A 7 - This page covers Infidelity and a broken marriage, you are not alone, emotionally unavailable spouse, Passive-aggressive, obsession, intuition - (posted 10-25-98)
Go to Q & A 8 - This page covers Buddhism, suffering alcoholics, the humility to receive, dysfunction in Japanese culture, sexual abused and overweight, the horribly shameful secret for incest survivors - (posted 11-21-98)
Go to Q & A 9 -   This page covers dependence of nicotine, stop judging and shaming ourselves, Unconditionally loved, progress - not perfection, cigarettes were a tool, we can change behaviors out of Love not shame and judgment,  grateful to be a non-smoker.


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These are two awards the Joy to You & Me Web Site has been selected for - neither award required that I link back to the awarding web site. I have chosen to link to both of them on my links page because they are both very valuable and quality sites. I just put them here to enjoy.