We do not have the power to change others - we do have the power to change our relationship with self by healing our codependency / wounded souls.  We can access the capacity to accept, embrace, forgive, have compassion for, and set boundaries with, all parts of self.  Learning to Love our self will allow us to gain the capacity to Love others in a healthy way.  Changing our relationship with life can transform life into an exciting adventure." - Robert Burney

Spiritual Teacher and Codependency Therapist Robert Burney, whose work has been compared to John Bradshaw's "except much more spiritual" and described as "taking inner child healing to a new level," has developed a unique approach to emotional healing that is the next level of recovery from codependency so many people have been seeking.  He has pioneered an inner child healing paradigm that offers a powerful, life changing formula for integrating Love, Spiritual Truth, and intellectual knowledge of healthy behavior into one's emotional experience of life - a blueprint for individuals to transform their core relationship with self and life.

Robert, whose work is firmly grounded on twelve step spiritual principles and emotional energy release / grief process therapy, learned in his own personal recovery that developing internal boundaries was the key to empowerment and freedom from the past.  His unique approach and application of the concept of internal boundaries, coupled with a Loving spiritual belief system, make the work innovative and powerfully life changing.

In his book Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls "A Cosmic Perspective on Codependence and the Human Condition" he postulates that Codependence (i.e. outer or external dependence) is The Human Condition - and that we have now entered a new Age of Healing and Joy in which it is possible to heal the planet through healing our relationships with self.  He combines Twelve Step Recovery Principles, Metaphysical Truth, and Native American Spirituality with quantum physics and molecular biology in presenting his belief that we are all connected, we are all extensions of the Divine, and that ultimately Love is our True essence.  His personal Spiritual beliefs - which embrace both Christ Consciousness and Goddess Energy - is that we are Spiritual Beings having a human experience that is unfolding perfectly from a Cosmic perspective.  He considers spirituality to be a word that describes one's relationship with life - and anyone, regardless of religious/spiritual belief or lack of it (who is not completely closed minded), can apply the approach he shares in his book to help them transform their experience of life into an easier, more Loving and enjoyable journey.

If you want to learn how to relax and enjoy life in the moment while you are healing and learning to Love your self - this book offers a unique and invaluable experience.

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Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls ~ Author: Robert Burney ISBN: 0-9648383-1-1 ~ Library of Congress Catalog Card Number: 95-95029 Retail Price: $14.95 "I have made more progress on a personal level in the few weeks I have had Robert's book and tape than in the preceding eight plus years when I first found out what codependency was."  "I just read your wonderful book, thank you for writing it. I have been a spiritual teacher since childhood, however, your book let me organize my thoughts a new way, a new perspective. I now have a much deeper understanding and am still learning from it. Dance, is one of the truly transformational works of our time thanks again" "Why isn't this book on the bestseller list?  I think it certainly will be someday.  You have incorporated many concepts of Truth into one beautiful, soul touching, and integrated piece of genius." "When I found your book, I found myself."  To see Reviews & more Testimonials go to Reviews and/or Testimonials.  Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls "An Audio Spiritual Experience" A slightly abridged version of the book spoken by the author ISBN 0-9648383-0-3 ~ four hour + Audio Cassette Tape Set Retail Price: $19.95 " . . .She had bought the tapes for him because he had a terminal illness.  She told me again how important those tapes were to him, and how he had listened to them over and over again in the last months of his life.   She said they were the only thing he wanted to listen to - and again expressed her gratitude to me for how much my words had helped her husband find peace and serenity while he was in the process of dying." - Update Announcement 10-20-00 Audio Version is now available on CDs (click  here for info) "I found a link to my site on another web site which commented on how much information I share on the site for free - and said that I share almost my whole book on it.  That isn't really true, the sharing the whole book part - although I do share a lot of quotes from my book Codependence:  The Dance of Wounded Souls on the pages of this site.  And a person can get a sense of my book from those quotes - but reading it is an experience in and of itself. The thing that I have heard from so many people is that reading the book - or listening to the audio tapes - can bring about a shift in a person's relationship with life.  That reading the book can, in and of itself, bring about a change in the music one is dancing to - can help a person relax and start enjoying life a little more because their perspective of life and self has shifted into one more aligned with Love.  That is the goal of codependency recovery in my view - to change the music of our human experience from a dance based upon shame, fear, and separation to a dance aligned with Joy, Love and ONENESS.  It makes my heart smile to know that I was the instrument in creating a book that can facilitate a musical metamorphosis in the dance of life for others." - Codependency Recovery: Wounded Souls Dancing in the Light Chapter 13 Changing the Music: Love instead of fear and shame *NEW November 2008* For the First Time:  Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls Ebook! Download 15 FREE Sections Also for the First Time: Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls "An Audio Spiritual Experience" is Now Available in MP3 download

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Robert is publishing drafts of several books, the story of his Spiritual Path, and a personal journal in the Joy2MeU Journal.  Subscriptions are available that include special offers in combination with book and/or tape set. See Journal ordering page.  To preview first issue of Joy2MeU Journal go to Journal Premier Issue

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"The wars outside of us are a reflection of the war within.  Humans have been at war within and without for thousands of years.  The wars, the violence, the rape of mother Earth that is happening, are all caused by the war within being projected outward. It is all caused by warring on ourselves.  By judging and feeling ashamed of ourselves for being human - and by fighting our own emotional process. The way to stop the war within is through healing and learning to Love our own inner child/children.  The inner child is the gateway to discovering our True Self - to reconnecting with the Great Spirit. I have wanted for years to print a bumper sticker that says:  "Work for World Peace - Heal your Inner Child"  Because that is the only way it can be done.  That is the only way that will work." Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls by Robert Burney

"Why isn't this book on the bestseller list? I think it certainly will be someday.  You have incorporated many concepts of Truth into one beautiful, soul touching, and integrated piece of genius." Marilyn Mick, Psychotherapist - Lawrence, Kansas Reviews of, & Testimonials to the book  Authors Foreword to the book Authors Bio and history of the book Investment Opportunity in Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls

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